Carving Out Moments of Peace
Updated: Jan 23, 2022
This time of year can be a time of great joy, and togetherness, or in some cases great sorrow and loneliness when we are away from those we love or are experiencing loss or trauma. But in any of these instances, stress plays a significant part of our daily lives. It becomes more important than ever to take care of ourselves to help to balance the effects of stressors.
It seems that at times the phrase self-care can be overused to the point that it feels expensive and intimidating. True self-care is neither. It could be something as simple as stopping for a moment and listening to soothing music. It could be a short nap, or a hot bath. Maybe it would feel restorative to take a little walk outside and take in some fresh air and notice the beauty in the natural world. Perhaps you could make a cup of tea and find a quiet corner in which to be present and peaceful. Sometimes a few mindful moments can be all it takes to calm the stresses of the day and refresh us enough to continue with daily activities in a more calm and peaceful way.
The most important part of self-care is to be in a state of non-judgement. We can actually judge ourself harshly for needing moments of self-care. Let's leave the judgement behind and simply be observers. If you need a moment to breathe, don't judge it or tell yourself that if you were stronger you wouldn't need it. Let's just look at what is with a loving and curious heart. What do I need in this moment to restore my peace? Take a tiny step. Breathe, walk, create, bathe, light a candle, sit in quiet. It doesn't have to be a spa day or a massage. Those are wonderful things. But in a matter of minutes in very simple ways we can shift our feelings, our outlook, our perceptions, our mood, our day. Treat yourself with the same love you would show to your best friend or your beloved. Look at yourself through eyes of love and a heart of compassion. We deserved need to experience unconditional love from ourselves. Sending you light and love!
Reading your piece on carving out moments of peace made me think back to a rainy Saturday last autumn when I finally gave myself permission to sit on the balcony with a cup of tea and no agenda. The sky was a steady drizzle, the city hum muted, and I let the sound of the water on the windowpane become a gentle soundtrack. I closed my laptop, turned off notifications, and simply watched the droplets race each other down the glass https://asic.gov.au/ That brief pause felt like a reset button for my frazzled mind, and I left the balcony feeling surprisingly centered, as if I’d reclaimed a tiny sanctuary amidst the chaos of deadlines and endless emails. It’s funny how…
Your piece on carving out moments of peace really struck a chord with me. A few weeks ago I found myself stuck in the usual rush of back‑to‑back meetings, endless emails, and the constant buzz of my phone. I decided to take a 15‑minute break and walked to the small park behind my office building, something I usually ignore https://www.monash.edu/ I sat on a bench, closed my eyes, and just listened to the rustle of leaves and the distant laughter of children. It felt like the world had hit pause for a second, and the tension in my shoulders eased almost instantly. I left the park feeling surprisingly refreshed, and I’ve since made it a habit to step outside for…
Your piece really hit home for me. A few weeks ago I found myself stuck in a never‑ending cycle of meetings, emails, and traffic, and I could feel the quiet slipping away. I decided to take a different route home and stumbled upon a small, almost hidden park tucked between office buildings. I sat on a bench, closed my eyes, and listened to the rustle of leaves and distant birdsong https://www.auspayplus.com.au/ It was a brief, unplanned pause, but it felt like a lifeline—a reminder that peace doesn’t always need a grand plan, just a willingness to notice the little pockets of calm. Since then, I’ve started setting a reminder on my phone to step outside for five minutes each afternoon,…
What is so important that you said is that it doesn't have to be expensive or intimidating. Some people do equate self-care with luxury, at least it is has been that way in pop culture. Acknowledging our feelings, virtual coffee time with a friend, asking family for an hour of space, etc., is just as much caring for the self.